I’m pretty sure at some point in your life someone has asked you; “Do you believe in love at first sight?” It is pretty much a “yes” or “no” kind of question. However, when you begin to really think about it the question goes much deeper than that. When it comes to love at first sight that is generally referring to physical features you notice things like hair, eyes, body, clothes and whatever else catches your eyes first.
First conversation on the other hand goes much deeper than that because it is when two people truly begin to get to know each other. Not to mention that it seems a bit less superficial than judging someone just on their appearance. It is like they say, “You only get one first impression so you had better make it count.” You get a peek into a person’s personality by the way they handle a conversation;
-Do they only talk about themselves?
-Are they interested in what I have to say?
-Does he/she make good eye contact during the conversation?
Little things like that can make all the difference. Personally for me, there have been a couple of situations where I fell for a girl at first sight. Amazingly, the last girl that happened with had a GREAT personality and it was an eye opener that personality sparks more of a connection than looks alone.
A conversation shows that you are interested in getting to know someone, but wanting someone based on just their looks shows that you are interested in getting into their pants. There is a thin line between love and lust. After you get that first glance you must ask yourself; “Is it love at first sight or love because of lust?”
See the difference?
This is just my personal take on this because when it comes to love there is no right or wrong. I’ve never had a girl in my life that I’ve loved. To me that word should not be used or taken lightly. So, now I ask you which is the foundation of your own relationships and potential love interests; first sight or first conversation?